Finding a life partner is one of the most significant decisions you will ever make. In the traditional world of "Rishta" culture and arranged marriages, the immense pressure to find a match can often overshadow the need for careful character observation. While families usually focus on external factors like education, career, and social status, the subtle behavioral traits that truly define the quality of a long-term relationship often go unnoticed. A candidate who appears "perfect on paper" might hide controlling tendencies, a lack of empathy, or unhealthy family boundaries that only surface after the wedding. Identifying these "red flags" early is not about being cynical or judgmental; it is about self-preservation and ensuring your future is built on mutual respect and genuine compatibility.
To help you navigate this complex emotional landscape, we have developed the Rishta Red Flags Detector. This assessment covers 15 critical areas of a person’s personality, including financial transparency, emotional regulation, and how they treat those around them. By answering these questions honestly based on your interactions, you can gain an objective perspective on whether you are seeing a healthy "Green Flag" partner or "Major Red Flags" that require your immediate attention. It is incredibly easy to get swept up in the excitement of a new proposal or family expectations, but taking a moment to evaluate these core traits can save you from years of compromise and heartache. Use this tool as your personal guide to making a more informed, confident, and safe choice for your life.
🚩 Rishta Red Flag Detector
Select one option for each question to see your results.
1. How do they talk about their past relationships?
2. How much control do their parents have over their decisions?
3. How do they treat waiters or domestic help?
4. What is their view on your career/job?
5. How do they react when you disagree with them?
6. Are they transparent about their finances/salary?
7. How often do they check your phone or social media?
8. What is their stance on "Dowry/Lene-Dene"?
9. Do they have a life/hobbies outside of you?
10. How is their temper?
11. How do they feel about your friends of the opposite gender?
12. Do they take responsibility for their mistakes?
13. Communication consistency?
14. What is their attitude towards housework?
15. How do you feel after talking to them?
